“If it was easy, everybody would be doing it.”
The sales representative and I were shooting the breeze about the music business late in the afternoon. I agreed with his cliché, a little more quickly than I intended to. We commiserated awhile about the difficulties of our chosen field, he wrote a small order for me, and then he was gone. He wasn’t the first to voice a similar sentiment on that day.
“No, I need a lot more, but I just can’t afford it.”
I immediately offered, tongue in cheek, to accompany them to the bank to acquire a loan so they could purchase the entire music store.
The fellow retorted, just as tongue in cheek, “No thanks! There’s no money to be made in the music business!”
I countered, perhaps a little too seriously, “You’re not telling me anything I haven’t known for the last thirty years!”
One summer day, a couple of years ago, the Lovely Lady and I stood in the middle of a plowed field
stretching for many acres in all directions. Standing expectantly under the scorching sun, we held an assortment of trowels in our hands and I carried a small cloth bag.
Along with a number of other folks, we had wandered along the furrows with their clods of dirt strewn hither and yon until we found a likely looking piece of ground and began to attempt to reap the crop for which this field was famous.
It wasn’t at all what I expected.
First of all, as I already mentioned, the mine is, quite literally, a plowed field.
And, the report that diamonds are lying on the ground waiting to be picked up is greatly exaggerated. Oh, I don’t dispute the fact that some people have found diamonds there, even valuable ones. But, they are the exception, not the rule. We found nothing worth mentioning, besides a load of disappointment, a couple of sunburns, and a lot of dirt.
If it was easy…
It wasn’t much different with the Klondike gold rush at the end of that same century. One hundred thousand people headed for certain riches. Only thirty thousand of them arrived. Of that number, less than ten percent found gold.
If it was easy…
We watch skilled craftsmen who make their jobs appear effortless and think I could do that! We view sports events and see the apparent ease with which the athletes achieve their goals and believe it comes naturally to them. I have sat in numberless auditoriums and marveled at the incredible talent of the musicians, imagining that with the right breaks, it could have been me up on that stage.
What we don’t see, and certainly wouldn’t desire to endure, are the endless hours of effort and the incredible self-discipline which these prodigies invest in their craft. They work at being the best, day after day, week after week, year after year, just so we can admire the results. And, all the while, we believe all it takes is the right break, knowing the right people, or being in the right place at the right time. What a joke!
If it was easy…
It’s just that sometimes you have to sift through a ton of dirt to get to the diamond.
If you have a dream, you won’t reach it simply by starting on the path to it. You have to persevere. You have to work through the hardships, the ineptitude of inexperience, sometimes even the discouragement of people who say it can’t be done.
Thirty years ago, the accountant who told me to stay out of the music business because the numbers don’t add up didn’t have the dream to follow. Even today, the numbers don’t add up sometimes, but I’m still following that dream.
Well, sure. It’s not hard to settle for a shiny crystal.
You have to work, and dare, and sweat for the diamonds.
If it was easy…
Anyone can do an average task. That’s why they call it average.