Crystal Clear

“You can take pictures of the wishing well if you want.”  The thin lady simpered proudly, as if she had just given me permission to view the Crown Jewels.  Moments earlier, we had entered her domain, stepping across a worn and scraped-up threshold into the dimly lit interior of the shabby building.  The ancient wood floor was bereft of finish, with most of the rough boards popped loose from their original, tightly-fitting, positions.  The surface flexed as we stepped into the only room and continued flexing as we walked gingerly, causing our minds to leap quickly back to the signs outside declaring that the owner was “Not responsible for accidents”.  Perhaps they were fearful that the floor would collapse beneath our weight and wanted us to be forewarned that there would be no compensation forthcoming.  We were already aware of that last part, simply by seeing the condition of the establishment.

We had sped down the highway past the place, headed for home from a weekend of tourist-y activities, a relaxing time away from the hectic pace that our lives seem to have attained recently.  The dilapidated sign outside spoke of treasures within and we could not resist the tumbledown shack, turning back to see if there were, indeed valuables awaiting us.  Another faded sign informed us that the “famous” crystal wishing well was located here.  We went in, but besides finding a frowning and suspicious business owner, found none of the normal items we expected to see.  There were no antiques, no housewares from ages past, not even any glassware from the depression era to tempt the foolish investor (a title I will vociferously deny, ignoring the collection hidden in my closet).  Old records–you know, those black things that once rotated atop our stereos and blasted forth our music, when the scratched spots weren’t holding the needle in place and causing it to play the same phrase again and again–were scattered on what passed for display tables.  We saw other miscellaneous items around the room, but there was absolutely nothing that I would have paid more than a few cents for at any garage sale.  I was ready to leave as quickly as my eyes swept the room.

But the lady had warmed up a bit and wanted us to know all about the old place.  A famous gangster was reputed to have had a shady business upstairs at one time.  I didn’t want to see, fearful as I was of the thought of walking on the floor downstairs, much less of being on the floor above that.  She didn’t offer us the chance.  She did insist that we view the “crystal” wishing well, merely a rocked-in grotto with murky water almost to the floor level, at the very back of the room.  “There’s a fish in there,” she announced proudly.  We didn’t see the fish.  It didn’t seem smart to throw any coins in the “well” if there was a chance that the fish might be harmed, but she thought that we would certainly want to photograph the well.  I reluctantly took the picture and was ready to be away from the depressing place.

The Lovely Lady, by my side, had noticed some items in a dingy counter nearby.  By now, the woman was eager to describe her treasures, pieces of crystal which she had adorned herself with copper wire and beads.  “They’re so full of energy and inner beauty!”  I couldn’t help but think that the opposite was true of the emaciated woman, herself almost lethargic and depressed.  Like a flash in the darkened room, a thought occurred to me, and suddenly I understood that we were being offered a rare opportunity.  The whole weekend, we had been consumers, obsessed with our own comfort, our own needs.  The folks offering what we needed were just there to accommodate us and our every whim. This lady, on the other hand, needed us.  She didn’t just need our money, she needed us to recognize her for who she was–a fellow human being, with a longing for respect and acceptance.  I looked around and saw the room with different eyes.  She was doing what she could to provide for herself and her family, and what was in this room was the result of her efforts.  The hand painted signs, the crude “wishing well”, the fish she cared for in the murky water, the decoration on the crystals she was offering, those were all her handiwork, her labor.

My attitude adjustment complete, I inquired if we might purchase one of her crystals.  She brightened up and a little of the energy and beauty that she sees in the crystal suddenly seemed to be present inside her.  We talked for awhile longer and she invited us to visit the cave up on the hill, which we did.  It too, was underwhelming by most standards, but it was hers and she was proud of it.  Our admiration cost us nothing at all, but was of great benefit to the young lady.  When we drove away just moments later, the broad smile on her face along with her invitation for us to return, were genuine.  The sour, suspicious person who had greeted us was gone…all because we recognized her as a person worthy of our esteem.

Miles down the road, as we approached a bridge across one of the many rivers in that area, the Lovely Lady wondered what it would look like from the river’s edge.  It may be a different concept to you, but we are, as I have mentioned before, lovers of bridges.  Many are actually works of art, simply placed conveniently for us to cross over previously impassable barriers–valleys, rivers, or even deep chasms.  I found the access road and we again turned off the highway.

What a refreshing break!  Moments after the pavement was left behind, we were walking a dirt pathway beside the river, down into a washout and up the other side, butterflies and dragonflies flitting around us.  Then suddenly, as we approached the river’s verge, looking through an opening in the trees, there it stood!  The concrete arches soared into the air, supporting the roadway above with grace and with style.  Invisible from the road itself, the beautiful old structure provided ease for the travelers who sped past, unawares.  An unattractive road and a railing, it was to those who never took time to see what lay underneath.  A beautifully designed piece of art and a labor of untold value was what we saw from our lowly vantage point.  All because we had taken the time to leave the beaten path and spend a few moments in appreciation of what we couldn’t have seen before.

For some reason, once again, I feel the need to leave you to work out the details of this one for yourself.  I could tell you what to think, could wax eloquent about the parallels and the relationships between the two events, but my bet is that you don’t need me to do that.  I’m going to trust you to finish the job before you move on to other pursuits.  You won’t disappoint me, now will you?

We visited the Crater of Diamonds park a day or two ago and as I stood in that field, I found myself thinking about the old song, “I’m just an old chunk of coal, but I’m going to be a diamond someday.”  I’m starting to believe that perhaps it simply depends on your viewpoint.  A lot of those chunks we think are still only made of coal are already well on their way to becoming diamonds.  You just have to know where to look.

You’ll be better at finding them than I was, I’m sure.

“He has made everything beautiful in its own time.  He has also set eternity in the hearts of man.”
(Ecclesiastes 3:11a~NIV)

“And many a man with life out of tune
All battered and scarred with sin
Is auctioned cheap to a thoughtless crowd
Much like that old violin

But the Master comes,
And the foolish crowd never can quite understand,
The worth of a soul and the change that is wrought
By the Touch of the Masters’ Hand”

(Myra Brooks Welch~American poet~1877-1959)

© Paul Phillips. He’s Taken Leave. 2012 All Rights Reserved.

One of the Least

It was nearing the end of the month, the time when the shopkeepers who had a “Buy, Sell, Trade” sign in their windows thought seriously about covering up the “Buy” part of the message.  After years of being in business, you begin to understand the ebb and flow of sales and acquisitions.  With the beginning of the new month, government checks securely deposited in the bank, the folks who depend on the generosity of their fellow citizens for their sustenance are free with cash.  Purchases are made, promised paybacks are taken care of and for a few weeks they will have tools and furniture and musical instruments.  For a few weeks.

As the month runs out, so, often, does the money.  Reacquiring their treasures costs more than actually buying them once and keeping them, but the cycle has been set into motion and will never stop.  They are trapped.  I’m not sure how the economical “safety net” worked in our Savior’s day, but even then, He spoke of the poor who are always with us.  The store proprietor in our tale understands that, even wondering sometimes if some of those “always with us” poor are assigned to one particular individual who will be their benefactor for years at a time.

The man who stood before him the other day was one such person.  Thirty-five years ago, they had begun their relationship with the same type of transaction as was being suggested now.  “I know it’s a little ratty, but if you’ll give me forty dollars for it, I’ll come and buy it back next month if it’s still here.”  The item in question is not merely in ratty condition; it is trashed.  Good for nothing except salvage, there is no investment value in it at all.  “Sorry,” comes the answer.  “There are already too many of those waiting to be parted out in the back room.”  The man looked at him with surprise.  A refusal?  This one was always a “soft touch”, not difficult like the pawnbrokers.  The store owner shook his head again and turned away.

Ten minutes later, the man was back.  Something in his manner was different.  “I really have to have some gas for my car.  I know you don’t want this thing, but is it worth fifteen dollars to you?  I don’t know what else to do.”  The businessman realized that this wasn’t a business proposition, it was a broken man needing help.  With a wink, he said, “Why don’t you keep it and I’ll just get you a little cash.  Between friends, right?”  It was a cinch that the item would be in the pawn shop by the end of the day anyway, but it didn’t matter.  With the plea from the man, the proprietor had also heard other words of the Savior, as He had said, “As much as you did it to the least of these, you did it to me,” and he realized that the opportunity had almost passed him by.

A friend of mine posted a picture online the other day that grabbed my attention and my heart.  The “shoes” on the feet of the man (or woman) in the photo were actually empty plastic bottles, flattened and laced with a twisted leather strap to make them into a thong of sorts.  The hopelessness of the person’s poverty needed no face.  Ten weathered and beaten toes, sitting on top of two pieces of “trash” said more than any words, any sad, empty eyes in a face could convey.  I was struck by the responses of others to the photo.  Most reacted with horror and compassion.  The one that impacted me the most though, was a man who angrily demanded to know what the shoe companies of the world were doing to take care of the problem, assuming that they had millions of dollars of ill-gotten profits at their disposal and asserting that it was their mess to clean up.  I am more saddened by his response than I am by the photo.

It is the response of many in our society…the “not my fault” argument.  His words said, “I feel bad for this person, but it is someone else’s responsibility to help–someone with a lot more money–someone who owes more to the poor than I.”  Where his argument falls down is that the latter part belies the former.  If it is not his responsibility, he doesn’t really feel bad for the person.  If we will not act to obey our consciences, they are of little use to us.  In a culture where the expectation is that an institution will shoulder the burden that should rightfully be our own, true charity is not present.  The “you” that the Teacher laid the burden on is not some nameless corporation, nor even a government bureaucracy, but the onus is laid squarely on the person being addressed.  I. Am. Responsible.

Once again, the preacher inside is begging to stand at the pulpit and pound it a bit, but he’s had enough time to get his message across.  The application will have to come in the hearts and minds of the readers.  Can I leave that task with you? 

We’ll all hope that at the end of next month, that shop keeper is better prepared and a little more aware of what is expected of him.  Perhaps, we’ll all be a little more ready to do our part. 

We won’t be doing it just for the one to whom we hand the cup of cool water.

“Come unto me, all you who are weary and heavily burdened and I will give you rest for your souls.”
(Matthew 11:28)

“The life of a man consists not in seeing visions and in dreaming dreams, but in active charity and in willing service.”
(Henry Wadsworth Longfellow~American poet and essayist~1807-1882)

© Paul Phillips. He’s Taken Leave. 2012 All Rights Reserved.

I Can’t Do The Sum

“Your integrity is in question and will be monitored!”  Those were the words I read through a red haze a couple of nights ago.  I had come into my business to take care of some late night tasks before sitting down to write for awhile.  The email I found was from a customer who thought they had ordered a particular CD and had been charged for it, but that we had never sent it.  Normally, these questions are easy to clear up and the customer is served with respect and hopefully returns to purchase more items.  This time it didn’t look as if that would be the result.  The customer had added those nine fateful words as a postscript to the email.  You might say that I was not a happy camper.

I realize that to many of you, I seem to be mild-mannered and level-headed, but there are a few people who know differently.  I do, on occasion, come unglued.  On this evening I was furious.  This was the first time this customer had contacted us regarding their problem.  It would seem to make sense to assume that an error had occurred and to attempt to have it rectified, but they were actually questioning my integrity!  I was ready to fire off an equally offensive missive, but was drawn up short unexpectedly as I researched the issue.

I found that the customer had indeed placed and received an order, but that it had been for a different item than what was referenced in the email.  It was obviously an error on the customer’s part, but it was the title of the song they had actually ordered that drew my attention.  The song was a popular Christian title from a year or two ago entitled “7 X 70”.  Seeing the title was all it took to stay my hand from typing the angry words that this person deserved to hear from me.  Many of you will immediately understand why.

Peter, the Rock, came to his Teacher and asked, “How many times do I have to take flack from people and still forgive them before I can respond in kind?  What do you think?  Seven times?”  His Teacher responded, “No, not just seven times.  Put up with it and forgive them seventy times seven.”  The number, of course, was of no consequence.  The meaning was that forgiveness should be offered as many times as the offense was committed.  The hard man, Peter, wanted a finite number to be able to count to and then retaliate.  The Teacher needed him to understand the meaning of true grace and He made that number so high that no one would be able to keep track of when the limit was reached.

My customer had offended me once.  I wanted to retaliate.  At first.  The “7 X 70” in front of me was a slap in the face, waking me to my own offense.  I admit that I was shamed.  No.  I am ashamed.  I had indeed taken offense at this customer’s words, but not only that, I now see the way I act toward many people on a daily basis.  I assume the worst, when probably more often than not, a simple error has occurred, possibly even on my part.  It is the way of the world today, is it not?  Expect perfection and accept nothing less.  The person we trample to achieve that goal is of no consequence; only our own satisfaction matters.

Illustration by Vectorportal.com

By retaliating and refusing to forgive, we place ourselves in the offender’s power, chaining ourselves to them with a bond that can be broken by only one thing…forgiveness. Again and again, I hear people tell the stories of growing old and realizing that they have carried bitterness with them all the way from childhood into their senior years.  I love the reports of how they can gain freedom, though.  I have heard of people crossing the country to find an estranged friend, perhaps phoning a parent they have refused to talk with for many years, or even writing a letter to a stranger at whom they took offense.  The key, the one that unlocks the prison in which they have confined themselves or the one that releases the shackles they have placed on their own wrists and legs, is a tiny one.  That key is just three little words, albeit so very hard to say…“I forgive you.”

I don’t ever want to be held in such a prison. 

As I considered these things, my mind went back to the problem at hand and I started over again on my note to the customer.  I explained what had transpired, suggesting that they were mistaken about the title they requested.  I pointed out that as Christians, we had a responsibility to treat each other with respect and asked them to contact me again.  They did.  A short note of apology arrived the next day.  Our accounts are clear with each other.  There are no handcuffs, no chains, not even a scrap of rope with which to tie us.

Whew, what a relief!  I’m just wondering, though.  If we’re trying to keep count, is that one against them?  Or, one against me?  Oh well, 7 X 69 then.  I can live with it…

“To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.”
(Lewis B Smedes~American author and Reformed theologian~1921-2002)

“…and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.”
(The Lord’s Prayer~from the Book of Common Prayer~based on Matthew 6:12)

© Paul Phillips. He’s Taken Leave. 2012 All Rights Reserved.

plain vanilla

We had an argument at the dinner table today.  Well, not so much an argument, as a discussion…No…it was an argument.  I’m assuming that some of you will want to weigh in, so you can get your keyboards and smart phones ready to make your comments.  You see, we were arguing, strangely enough, about ice cream flavors.

I will admit to being no connoisseur of gourmet foods.  I am not a “foody” in any way.  I eat food.  Real food.  I’m not fooled by a little raspberry sauce drizzled around a dish so tiny you have to use the lowest section of your trifocals to find it on the plate.  Presentation has nothing to do with the meals I like.  Flavor and texture.  Those are the most important attributes I’m seeking in the materials that pass my lips.  For instance, corn on the cob, fresh from the garden, husked and boiled in water, with a little salt and butter added…now that’s real food.  Creamed corn?  Not at all!  While there may be a slight corn-like flavor to the recipe, the dreadful mushy, slimy dish resembles corn not at all.  A fresh tomato is good for any number of things.  Eaten by itself in wedges?  Sliced and laid atop a freshly grilled hamburger patty?  One of a few select ingredients in a plain dinner salad?  All wonderful conditions in which to consume the enigmatic fruit/vegetable.  Stewed and breaded?  I think the Valley Girl of the Seventies said it as delicately as I can put it–“Gag me with a spoon!”

You begin to see a pattern here, don’t you?  I like plain food.  The honest flavors and natural textures of foods are a treat to the palate and need very little embellishment.  I think I’m what used to be called a “meat and potatoes” man.  I’ll eat those other dishes when they are on the menu; even enjoy them at times.  But, for comfort food, for feeling that all is right with the world, I’ll have the fried chicken with mashed potatoes, thank you!  Sure, a little white gravy will go nicely on the potatoes, but not too much.  I want to taste the food I masticate.

Vanilla ice cream.  It’s what I prefer.  Actually, what I crave, since it’s not really supposed to be in my diet at all now.  If you’ll promise not to tell the Lovely Lady, I will admit to having a serving of Blue Bell Homemade Vanilla just this evening.  I passed on it at dinner today.  But, it called my name for the rest of the day, so I answered.  Just a little.  Vanilla is an amazing flavor.  If you must know, that was the reason for the “discussion” at the dinner table.  One of our guests refused the offer of this food-of-the-gods after the meal, with one word, “Yuck!”  It was her contention that vanilla is plain, a non-flavor, if you will.  While there was a day I would have agreed with her assessment, I will readily confess that I have seen the error of my ways.  My sister-in-law (aided by her husband) creates an incredible home-made vanilla ice cream, the memory of which will make you want to spit out any Cookies and Cream you taste thereafter.  I have had Butter Pecan I thought was really good, but one spoonful of Aunt Jan’s homemade recipe drove away any fond thought of that plastic flavor which remained.

I have thought of this phenomenon numerous times, while consuming unseemly quantities of the fat-laden nectar.  I’m convinced that when we start to add flavors to the original, we begin a journey down a path that leads to all kinds of excess which make us forget what we loved in the first place.  A teaspoonful of chocolate syrup added today, turns into a couple of tablespoons the next time and before you know it, you’re consuming some substance unidentifiable as ice cream, with a name like Chocolate Chunky Peanut Butter Cookie Dough Nightmare, and wondering how you could have sunk so low.  (You may press “send” on those angry notes any time you are ready now…)

What’s my point, you ask?  As usual, I employ the ridiculous to illustrate the plain truth:  It is so simple to leave the path of clean, straightforward joys, mingling them with gaudy, overpowering extravagance, and before we know it, we no longer recognize the original product as real, as desirable. “Plain Vanilla” we call it, implying that it is somehow lacking.  The concept holds true throughout our culture.  Clean cut, wholesome young men and women are replaced by Hollywood with surgically enhanced and painted caricatures with attitude problems.  A criminal record is a plus, not an embarrassment.  If pets are important to you, it is no longer acceptable to just have a dog in the backyard, buying dry dog food at the local supermarket when they run out.  We must shop at stores which cater to the pet’s whims, offering amazingly expensive toys, clothes (yes, clothes!), and food.  Don’t leave that poor pooch alone at home all day!  Doggie Day Care is the only loving way to treat Fido in this culture!  Families who enjoy the simple pleasures of spending time together playing at the park are replaced with the Madison Avenue image of the family who spends together at the amusement park, while wearing costly mouse ears and hugging imaginary princesses who have no interest in returning the adoration.  Bigger, better, more flavor, more excitement…all these are desirable; while plain, clean, pure,and simple are pejoratives used to poke fun.  The add-ons eclipse the original, making it seem obsolescent and passe’.

I’ll have two scoops of Vanilla, please.  I’m fairly sure that great things are more often accomplished by just plain folks.  Heroes are more likely to be normal people with simple values than they are to be the fake, embellished stars on television.  Honest and responsible young adults are reared in the homes of honest and responsible parents.

On second thought, make that just one scoop.  (Watching my calories and fat intake, you see?)  Still Vanilla.  It’s an amazing flavor…

“‘White,’ Saruman sneered.  ‘It serves as but a beginning. The white cloth may be dyed, the white page may be overwritten, the white light may be broken.’  ‘In which case, it is no longer white,’ Gandalf answered.  “And, he who breaks a thing to find out what it is has left the path of wisdom.'”
(Lord of the Rings~J.R.R. Tolkien)

“‘Tis the gift to be simple, ’tis the gift to be free, 
’tis the gift to come down where we ought to be…”
(Simple Gifts~Elder Joseph Bracket~American Shaker songwriter~1797-1882)

Originally posted 10/10/11

© Paul Phillips. He’s Taken Leave. 2012 All Rights Reserved.

Left to Right? Right to Left?

The store was empty and I let out a pent-up breath, almost as if I had been holding it all day.  “Whew, young man!  Let’s close up.  Why don’t you turn out the lights for me?”  The oldest grandchild had stayed with Grandpa at the music store while, just moments before, his siblings had tagged along behind their grandmother to get ready for supper.  The bright young man headed eagerly for the row of light switches that line the wall behind the cash register.  I knew I wouldn’t have to tell him which ones to flip down to the off position, and waited expectantly near the rear of the store.  Some days just beg for the store to get dark fast, before another customer can come to the door and realize that there might be a chance to get that last, last-minute item.  This was one of those days.  But, the lights stayed on.

“What’s wrong?” I queried the six-year old, now standing pensively before the switches, finger tapping his lips.  He thought for a moment.  “Well…I was wondering.  Do you turn them off from left to right?  Or is it better to do it from right to left?”  I didn’t want to hurt his feelings, so I suppressed with difficulty, the guffaw that threatened to erupt at the notion.  I assured him that the direction did not matter at all, but that what was important was to extinguish the lights as quickly as possible.  Still he stood, awaiting the instructions which would determine which levers were slid downward first and which were last.  I thought about just calling out a direction, but then thought better of it. While I wanted the darkness to descend soon, I also think that little lessons learned early can sometimes head off issues later on.  It would serve no purpose for him to believe that one way was correct and the other wrong, so I prodded him to choose for himself.  “Why don’t you decide if you want it to get dark from the front to the back, or from the back to the front?”  Ah!  That did it!

Before you could say, “Business hours are over,” the lights in the back went dark, then progressed to the front until the store was dark.  I let out another pent-up breath, content now that I really was done with the day.  We headed home, the boy-who-wants-to-do-things-right and I, ready to enjoy some pizza and relaxation.

Sometimes, the choice before us doesn’t involve right or wrong, good or bad.  It’s just a choice.  If we teach our children that every choice they come upon is about those things, we set them up for problems in life.  Often, we just choose in the dark.  There is frequently nothing wrong with flipping a coin, or saying “Eenie Meenie Miney Mo”.

Day after day, they come in…the people on errands.  It used to be slips of paper, now more often it is a cell-phone, screen lit with the list of necessary purchases for someone at the other end.  Frequently, the list is specific, right down to brand, size, and chemical makeup.  Usually though, there is one last item on the list.  I’ve seen the words written.  “Picks.”  “A few picks.”  “A handful of picks.”  I am not encouraged when I see that item, especially without the specifications.  There is a plethora of styles and dimensions of guitar picks.  Teardrop shape, triangular, offset…tiny, large, huge…with plastic grips, cork grips, or no grip…extra thin, medium, heavy, extra heavy…the array of options is dizzying.  The customer is usually frozen in front of the display, tapping their lip with a finger.  “Which is the right one?”  There is no good answer.  All of them.  None at all. One of these, one of those.  My answer is standard by now.  “There is no right and wrong.  It’s a personal choice.  Most people pick the thin ones, but some prefer the extremely rigid ones.”  Now the customer is frustrated, because I won’t make the choice for them.  Eventually, everyone comes to the counter with some picks.  Invariably, they still ask, “Do you think these will be okay?”  I don’t know.

What is it about our make up that wants a clear-cut answer to every question?  We want black & white, good vs. bad, right or wrong solutions.  And sometimes, there are none–just “this’ll do” options.  For some reason, those answers are unsatisfying and leave us wanting for something better, at least momentarily.  Usually, by the time the customer has paid their bill and headed out the door, the dilemma is completely forgotten.  It is done and in the past, for better or worse, and the stress is gone.

I expect that you are waiting for a life-lesson, an application of the observations I have made.  I’ve got nothing.  Sometimes observations and experiences stand on their own and need no clarification.  Human nature wants more, but at times, the experience is the lesson.  Sorry if that leaves you feeling cheated.  If you need something more, perhaps you can make up your own ending and add it below in a comment.

Now, I’ve got to get some work accomplished.  Which guitar should I start to work on now?  Choices, choices…

“Be willing to make choices.  That’s the most important quality in a good leader.”
(General George Patton~American General in two world wars~1885-1945)

“When it snows, you have two choices: shovel or make snow angels.”
(Anonymous)

In The Dark

The medical bill was lying with the mail on the table.  The boy and I share the same first name and, not recognizing the billing organization, I assumed it might be his, so it waited for his next visit.  He opened it today.  “Dad, this one’s yours,” he called out, apparently happy that he wouldn’t have to pay out any of his own hard-earned money this time.  I took the paper from his hand and perused the information it contained.  As soon as I saw the date, a day in early August last year, my mind darted back to that late night bicycle ride and its disastrous consequences.

The cool new LED light set the Lovely Lady had picked up for me was exactly what I was needing.  Most of my daylight hours are taken up with work related projects, so I was finding myself exercising late in the evening and the darkness prevented bicycling from being one of the options.  I enjoy the bike, and the trail which spans our little town is a great route for riding on.  I do, however, need to see to be able to navigate and the lighting, while adequate for walking and jogging, just isn’t enough for these old eyes to see where I’m going.  The lights were going to eliminate that problem for me.  “I’m going out tonight!”  I told her gleefully.  Installation was a snap and I was out the door about ten-thirty, expecting to be back in forty-five minutes or so.  Things didn’t go according to plan.

I have a good idea of where the accident happened, since I remember clearly the moments before I started down that steep hill.  I don’t remember actually descending the hill at all, nor anything about the accident or the hour following it.  I can only assume that the darkness caused me to misjudge one of the steep slopes and sharp curves, although it has been suggested that some of the wildlife which frequents the area may have figured into the disaster.  Regardless, I had a good bit of road rash and several lacerations, along with a concussion to show for my first night ride.  I have no idea how I found my way back, but somehow, after an hour and a half of being gone, I rolled my bicycle into the backyard, only then becoming aware of my surroundings.  I staggered into the house, suggesting to the Lovely Lady that we should visit the emergency room.  She jokes about my insistence that I change my underwear before going, but I’m kind of proud that my mother’s lessons weren’t completely lost in the fog (“Always put on clean underpants, in case you have to go to the hospital…”).  The bill received this past week was for one of the technicians who was involved with the CT scan.

Many of you are aware that I was emotionally unable to face the bicycle for a number of months, but I will admit today that my biggest challenge was still to come, after I finally mastered the fear of simply mounting the beast once more.  On several occasions, I approached the path that lead down that hill, but turned around before descending it again.  Down that way lay potential disaster and, even a little of the unknown.  I couldn’t face it.  I knew that I had to ride that route again, but each time, the emotional turmoil began anew, causing me to turn back.  Eventually though, I did ride down that steep, curving path, taking the hill and curves like an old woman, I’m sure, but it was accomplished!  Since that day, I have ridden the path numerous times, but I wonder still if I will ever ride it again without the fear or emotion.  Only time will tell.

It may seem like a non sequitur, but you might be interested to know that I called my Mom tonight.  I wanted to be sure and wish her a Happy Mother’s Day.  After the phone has rung several times, I hear her voice.  “Hello.”  It is the same voice I’ve heard for years, but it has a different tone to it.  Each time I’ve called her lately, it had been so.  Normally, all it takes is a word or two and she recognizes me, but I have talked with her for several minutes tonight before she asks, “I know I’m supposed to know who you are, but I can’t recall your name.”  Although not completely unexpected, this is the first time she hasn’t known me after a few minutes.  After another exchange or two, she asks the question again, “What did you say your name was?  I’ve forgotten already.”  The thirty minute conversation that follows is like being in a room with a two-year old child who is fascinated with the light switch.  We are in the light for awhile, but in the dark for just as much of the time.  The cognizance is intact one moment, but the next, she wants to know where I live, making an unrelated comment in reply to my answer.  She has visited many times in my home here, and there was a day she could have made the eight-hundred mile trip from her home to mine without the aid of a map of any kind.  Now, we are hard put to navigate a short conversation without being lost numerous times.  Oh, at times, we seem to be on an even keel, with her even asking questions and remembering the names of the subject of her queries, but just as quickly, bewilderment returns and she is a-sea once more.

When we finish our conversation and I have said my goodbyes, I am overcome with emotion.  My Mom, the same woman who taught me to reason and maneuver through the mine-field of conversation, can’t be the person I have just spoken with.  I miss her quick repartee, her humor, and her concern for all the people in my sphere of relationships.  The doctors won’t say that she has any particular disease, but it is obvious that little by little, her mental capabilities are eroding, leaving her, in appearance, the same person she always was, but taking away who she really is and has been.  It is sometimes called, when applied to Alzheimer’s patients, the long goodbye.  Many of the folks who suffer the disease are painfully aware of what is to come and, in moments of awareness, are overcome with sadness and anger at the thief who is stealing their relationships and their minds.  It can be a long, dark road, a road that no one would choose to go down.  I don’t want to walk it with my mother.  There is nothing down that road but disaster and pain.

Just like the bicycle path however, this is a road I know must be taken.  My Dad walks it with her every day.  As much as I want to avoid the pain, this is my Mom.  She needs me to be there, if only for the moments of coherence.  She will not remember tomorrow that we spoke, just as she has forgotten my visit there a few short months ago.  The next time we speak, even my name may not open doors for her.  Still, I think I’ll keep going down that way as many times as I can, pitfalls and all.  Love demands it.  My faith does too.  “Honor your father and mother.”  The rules haven’t changed.

How about you?  Do you have a road you don’t want to travel, a little path you avoid like the plague?  Maybe it’s time to head down that way again.  Relationships with estranged family or friends, apologies needing to be made, deeds long unaccomplished which lie waiting still.  We each have our own bike paths which must be conquered, our own hated roads we must face.

They don’t have to be faced alone.  We are reminded of our Shepherd, “Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear nothing, for You are with me…”  We are given companions to help us along the way, and friends who are there to cheer us on.

Let’s head down the road together.  It’ll be less lonely that way.

“Two are better than one…If one falls down, his friend can help him up.  But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up.”
(Ecclesiastes 4:10)

“If you can find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn’t lead anywhere.”
(Frank A Clark~Columnist and cartoonist~1911-1991)

World’s Greatest Mom

Every mom aspires to be the World’s Greatest Mom, and by some crazy quirk of logic, most succeed.”*


In this week preceding the day some politician has randomly designated “Mother’s Day”, possibly driven by payoffs from the flower and greeting card lobbyists, our thoughts seem to go back in time to the days when our own mothers were the moving force in our lives.  The images that are depicted by said industries in their commercials and on their product are of sentimental and unrealistic scenes of domestic bliss.  The regal women in their pretend world are always perfectly coiffed and put-together, make-up applied professionally and coordinated designer clothing clinging wrinkle-free to a model’s body.  I sit here tonight and from nowhere in my dimmest memory, can I draw forth such a vision.

I remember a slightly overweight woman in mule slippers and an old terry-cloth robe, standing at the bottom of the stairs and yelling, “If you don’t get out of bed and down here right now, you’ll get no breakfast, AND you’ll miss your bus!”  The sack lunch we were given wasn’t filled with Lunchables or with Jiff peanut-butter (“Choosy mothers choose Jiff!”) and Smuckers jelly sandwiches (unless those were on sale that week), along with an apple and a note, but was more likely to have a potted meat sandwich (bargain bread with the soupy stuff smeared over it) and some slightly stale potato chips (from the 5 pound bargain package) tucked into a “baggie” inside.  By lunchtime, it would taste like a feast to the hungry urchin into whose hands it had been shoved as he ran to catch the bus.

You see, my Mom never was anything like a “Desperate Housewife” or one of the “Real Housewives of (fill-in-the-blank)”.  She was Mom…sometimes grumpy, sometimes doting…often harried, frequently docile, but always loving and teaching and pushing.  There was never a time when we didn’t know that she wanted the best for her children.  Oh, we didn’t always show her respect and she didn’t always have a quiet demeanor when dealing with us, but there was no doubt that she was on our side.

I learned to think on my feet from Mom, as we sat and argued for hours.  Truly, that trait of mine (the arguing) comes from her and not from my father, who hated arguments of any ilk.  But, I will always have the picture in my mind of Mom, as she stopped to think about a point her antagonist had just made.  She would purse her lips, then stretch them thin, tapping her cheek with a long finger, considering carefully what had been said.  Within seconds, the answer was on her tongue and the verbal joust would resume.  Even into her old age, she has been an able debater, leading some of her children to avoid delicate subjects, should she decide to challenge any random premise.  The skills of logic I learned in those encounters have served well in many situations.  The argumentativeness, I’ve had to work to control a bit more than I’d like to admit.

I could spend hours discussing her traits, good and bad.  The strident defense of her children when they were accused unfairly, the stubbornness of refusing to be bullied into paying fees for useless services, the tirades at us for our lack of initiative in housework…all of these and countless more, went into who the woman was and is, but only one more occurrence will I burden you with today.

I will admit that I was the strangest of her children and the hardest for her to understand.  I would cry at nothing, stomping up to my bedroom and sulking for hours over the least of slights.  I could work with tirelessness on a project that caught my fancy, but then would sit in indolence and procrastination when presented with a job which had to be accomplished, but in which I had no interest.  I remember one particular evening, when I had once again stormed up the stairs long before bedtime and lay sobbing on my bed.  As the time to be asleep passed and my tirade continued unabated, Mom called me downstairs.  At that time of night, it was an action which usually only meant that corporal punishment was imminent.  But, this time, she led me to her chair and, sitting down in it, set me on her lap and just held me.  I was eight, and hadn’t been in this position for a number of years, but it was comforting.  Kindly, she asked what was really bothering me.  I actually didn’t know, but the words just popped out, “I want a puppy!”  My Dad, sitting in his recliner across the room, snorted.  But, Mom just talked with me about the situation, explaining quietly and lovingly that the family dog would have to do for now, since there was no way possible that each of the five kids could have their own pet.  (We weren’t licensed to be a zoo…)  I didn’t really want a puppy; it was just the first thing that came into my head.  But, the loving and tender way that Mom responded was all I needed to calm down and stop crying.  Within a very short time, I was on my way to bed comforted and secure.  It was one of the few times that I dropped right off to sleep upon lying down.  A mother’s love can do that.

Do I have a point?  Just this…the fact that Mom didn’t fit a single one of the “ideal” requirements that makes up the perfect mother in the eyes of the rest of the world, had nothing to do with her ability to do the work that God had set in front of her.  She wasn’t a perfect person in any way, but she was exactly the mother that I needed to help me grow up into a man who could think for himself, learning to love another woman who would also be a “perfect” mother, and becoming a father who could love and teach and support his own children.

By writing this, I mean to honor, not only my own mother, who needed the patience of Job and the wisdom of Solomon to raise her brood, but I want to honor mothers everywhere who daily do the task in front of them.  It is largely a thankless job for 364 days of the year, but it does continue for every one of those monotonous and unexceptional days, in spite of the lack of notice on our part.  I hope you will take the time to let your mother know of your honor and love, and respect in a very real way, not only this weekend, but also upon every opportunity which presents itself on the other days of the year and indeed, for the rest of her life.

It will only be a partial payment of a debt which is owed her.

“If you have a mom, there is nowhere you are likely to go where a prayer has not already been.”
(Robert Brault~American writer)

“Her children stand and bless her…”
(Proverbs 31:28 NLT)

*Robert Brault, “A Robert Brault Reader”, May 5, 2012

Clicking My Heels

“You can’t go back home to your family, back home to your childhood … back home to a young man’s dreams of glory and of fame … back home to places in the country…”*

I went back home today.  Well okay, I didn’t really take the eight hundred mile trip between where I’ve called home for the last thirty-five years and the place where I grew up, but I did go in my head.  I have actually made the physical trip several times over the last three decades, but each time, I was disappointed in some way.  I like it better in my head.

I walked across the street from the old frame house where I spent most of my childhood.  In my mind’s eye I am not an adult, but a barefoot, scruffy kid in cutoff blue jeans.  As I leave the searing hot pavement, I see on the left, my Grandpa sitting on the screened in porch of his home, the house Dad had moved in for him and Grandma.  I sing out a careless, “Hi, Grandpa!”, but for some reason, in my imagination, it is the voice of my grandson I hear and not my own.  With no breath to call out in reply, he raises his hand and smiles, just as he always did, to anyone who looked his way.  His life for many years consisted of just that, sitting in the old metal lawn chair on the porch and watching the world go by, or sitting in his easy chair inside watching the world go by on television; the days broken up only by difficult walks between his roosting places.  Emphysema stole away not only his breath, but his life, the disease itself precipitated by years of smoking and laboring in toxic environments.  But, I pass on by with a wave of my own, oblivious to his discomfort, content that he is simply there.

I walk beside the foundations of the old house, a dim memory for me; it was torn down when I was five to clear the property for our mobile home.  My only real remembrance of that structure was of filling the cellar with dirt and concrete pieces after the old deserted house was razed.  Up ahead a few feet, the place where the mobile home sat for a few years.  The trailer had been home to my family of seven for a number of years, traveling all the way to Florida when Dad was stationed there with the Navy, and back when he was discharged.  We were crammed in there like sardines, but we never realized that it was a hardship. In my mind, I replay the day we brought the bull snake in from the field behind, thinking it was dead, only to have the angry fellow loose in the trailer and terrorizing the whole family an hour or two later, when we returned to find the empty gallon jar in which we had left him.  Other memories are stirred by the place, but they’ll wait for another day…

Past the trailer site is the empty field where we played football, basketball and sometimes, softball.  The decrepit light poles that Dad dug post holes for and then ran wires to are still present, but there are lights at the top no longer; the wires have broken and rotted or been cut away years ago.  Still, I remember like it was yesterday, the two long afternoons and evenings when I used a shovel and hoe to clear away every vestige of buffel grass, so that the boy’s church group would have a place to play basketball when we were temporarily kicked out by the church where we had been playing.  The buffel grass is knee high once again.

Landmarks jump to mind:  the “little house” – really just a ramshackle old shed where we played in the rafters and on the tin roof, as well as sneaking a cigarette or two from our stolen stash.  It’s long gone; torn down in the interest of safety.  There’s the place where one brother built a pig pen; the cause of an argument between him and my mother about keeping it cleaned up.  Mom: “It’ll just be one great big lob lolly!”  Brother: “It will not be a lol lobby! I’ll keep it shoveled out every morning.”  To this day, I don’t know what either a lob lolly, or a lol lobby, is.  (The pigs did fine, either way.) 

Back there is the place where “The Hole” used to be.  We were good with shovels when it came to taking dirt out of the ground.  Not so good with putting it back.  This particular place is epic in my memory, the site of many dirt clod wars, and not a few battles with homemade slingshots loaded with the fruit of the china berry tree.  The enemy usually were armed with Daisy BB guns, but we held our own and often prevailed.  The hole is now little more than a depression in the field as I walk by.

The fence stops me here, but there was no such barrier present for many years while I was growing up.  On past that boundary lies the irrigation canal, a highway to adventure any day we chose to wander along it…beside it, inside it, bridging it with two by fours…even straddling it, with legs spread wide, one foot on each of the vertical concrete sides.  An excursion along the canal never failed to net us a bounty of adventure and a mishap or two.

The memories could go on forever, but suddenly, a stronger realization takes hold.  This can never be any more than a stroll down memory lane.  I’ll never physically make that trip again, since the property is no longer in the family.  My parents haven’t lived in the house across the street for fifteen years and will probably never live there again.  Grandpa has passed on, and the boy who enjoyed the amazing adventure of growing up there is no longer.  Now a grandpa myself, even if my feet could ever walk that winding path again, there has been a lot of water move past in the stream of life.   

I can’t go home.

It’s a sobering thought.  The comfort of home and loved ones lying behind is a strong inspiration.  It encourages and motivates us to keep going when the path ahead is as dark as night.  I still remember the emotions that have been evoked every single time I have seen the old place in the rear view mirror as I have left. I remember my tears, thirty-some years ago, as the Lovely Lady and I drove away and headed back north at the end of my first visit back after leaving.  Her selfless words to me then are still strong in my memory.  “I’ll move back here with you if you want…”   But I knew, even then, that I couldn’t go home.  Oh, I have visited and enjoyed the visits immensely.  I have taken the trip down the roads of memory more times than I will admit.  But, home is now in a different locale.  Memories have been made in a new place.

And, that’s the way it works.  We move forward.  Unlike me, some of you will do it from the same physical location all of your lives, but you don’t stand still.  All of us mature and grow, and the world around us changes.  We can’t go back and I don’t believe that any of us really would, even if it were possible.

You know, if you have read many of my posts, that I love the joys that are remembered, and the life lessons that are brought to mind by our past.  But, one foot after another, step by step, mile by mile, we  are still moving along the path of life.  We have learned from the past, we have reveled in the love and shared experiences.  But our goal, our vision, is always out ahead of us.  If we look back for too long, longing for a simpler time, or yearning for joys past, we miss the exhilaration of today and the expectation of tomorrow. 

I like the poem, that Tolkien used in different form a number of times in his books, about The Road.  His idea, that stepping onto the road outside our front door would sweep us to places we could never dream of, strikes a note with me.  The adventure is not behind, it is still ahead.  We advance with eager hearts, knowing that just around the next bend, challenges and joys, along with some sorrows, lie waiting to be faced.

I guess in a way, you could say that while you can’t go back home, you can go ahead to home.  And, along the way, home comes right along with us.

There’s no place like home.

“For this world is not our permanent home; we are looking forward to a home yet to come.”
(Hebrews 13:14)

“Because, this is a very great adventure, and no danger seems to me so great as that of knowing when I get back to Narnia that I left a mystery behind me through fear.”
(Reepicheep, the mouse~”Voyage of the Dawn Treader” from “The Chronicles of Narnia~C.S.Lewis)

Still round the corner there may wait 
A new road or a secret gate, 
And though I oft have passed them by, 
A day will come at last when I 
Shall take the hidden paths that run 
West of the Moon, East of the Sun.”
(“The Road Goes Ever On” from “The Return of the King” ~J.R.R. Tolkien)

*”You Can’t Go Home Again, Thomas Wolfe, Harper Brothers, 1940

Residence Evil

The wind was howling, tossing the branches of the chinaberry trees around like feathers, and the rain was pelting the windows already.  The main storm wouldn’t arrive for hours yet, but the early effects of the hurricane were already in evidence.  Inside the house, all were on edge.  If you had asked the ten-year-old, the youngest of the five children interned in the residence, he would have assured you that he was actually excited.  A real hurricane!  Headed straight for them!  Secretly though, he was frightened.  What if the structure of the house wasn’t strong enough?  What if the flooding which was predicted came up into the building?  His Mom and Dad had taken the necessary precautions; the windows had been taped to keep them from shattering, there was plenty of food in the house, and even several gallons of drinking water.  What if it wasn’t enough? 

He didn’t voice his fears.  The bravado that regularly kept him from being the target of too much bullying by older siblings had been developed by long experience.  No chink in the armor of machismo could be revealed.  There were too many people eager to jump at any opportunity to tease and harangue.  He knew better than to blubber out his terror.  He wasn’t afraid, he was excited!  But, that didn’t keep him from listening to the radio as the announcers told of impending doom for the entire area.  His mother was glued to the little transistor set, when she wasn’t preparing sandwich material.  “You never know when you’ll have a chance later…”  On top of the stove, a large stainless steel pan of eggs was boiling, an essential ingredient to her famous egg and tuna salad concoction.  At the very least, they wouldn’t go hungry.

And still, the radio droned on.  “We’ll see the main storm slamming into the coast at about eleven-thirty tonight, with the eye coming ashore about three hours after that.”  For some reason, the eye seemed to be the thing to fear.  The experts always warned about that specifically.  “Never go outside in the eye of the storm.  It’s very dangerous!  Even though it seems calm, the winds will return, without warning, from the other direction.”  He imagined, erroneously, that this must have been where the term “evil eye” came from. It seemed to the young boy that any part of the storm bearing down on them must be inherently evil.

But, as was usual with four boys in the house, a fracas arose soon enough.  Perhaps the nervous energy was the cause, but more probably, it was just the fact that they were all cooped up…and it was what they always did.  This time though, it would escalate with alarming haste.  The cause of the altercation is long lost in the mist of the years, but within a few seconds, instead of just talking trash or hollering, “Did not!” to counteract the opponent’s “Did too!”, the youngest, standing near the sink in the kitchen had flipped a spoonful of warm dish water on one of the older boys.  The older boy grew visibly angry and chased the youngest around the dining room a time or two, both scattering chairs in their scrambling around.  As they ran, the older combatant spotted a means of vengeance, his only thought in that instant being “an eye for an eye.”  Water had been the start of it, and a source of water to repay his tormentor was at hand.  A moment later, without a second’s thought to the ramifications, a cup was dipped into the pan of boiling eggs on the stove and the contents were flung right at the abdomen of the oncoming youngster.

The fracas ended abruptly as screams tore the night, louder even than the shrieking wind around the edges of the house.  First aid was rendered, with the older boy assisting, all the while apologizing profusely.  The storm outside was forgotten as antibiotic ointment was applied, along with a mother’s sympathy (and a few stern words to both miscreants).  For some reason, the possibility of danger outside was not nearly as important anymore.  The very real pain of the burn on his body seemed to magically relieve the fear of the impending turbulence in the atmosphere.  The rest of the night was spent, not in terror of the wind and water, but in pain from the injury which had occurred.

There is a passage in one of the first books in “The Lord Of the Rings” trilogy, wherein one of the main character’s companions speaks his opinion of the bad situation in which they find themselves.  “The wolf that one hears is worse than the orc (goblin) that one fears.”  It fits the situation above to a tee.  The possibilities of danger from the storm completely occupy the boy’s mind until a more pressing thought takes over.  “The danger is inside here, right now!”  At that point, the imagined or predicted disaster is forgotten and reality shoves its way in.  How quickly, the perspective shifts!

The preacher is begging to come to the pulpit, moralizing about danger lurking in the place we least expect it, but we’ll keep him in the pew for today.  True, more could be said, but I’m confident that it need not be spelled out for you.  Your quick minds are already leaping to situations; memories are already replaying themselves in your heads.  My work here is done.

Sufficient for the day, is the evil which is already present therein. 

“Not half the storms that threatened me 
     E’er broke upon my head,
Not half the pains I’ve waited for 
     E’er racked me on my bed.
Not half the clouds that drifted by 
     Have overshadowed me
Nor half the dangers ever came 
     I fancied I could see.”
(Anonymous~circa 1900)

“So don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries. Today’s trouble is enough for today.”
(Matthew 6:34~NLT)

*”The Fellowship Of The Ring”, J.R.R. Tolkien, originally published 1959

Overdrawn

I have words to spend and sometimes spend them foolishly…squandering verbs and nouns, sending metaphors askew, and using similes like fireworks whose sparks often fail to flame…*

That descriptive language is the introduction to a book compiled of articles by a small-town newspaper editor, who was also a popular author of a number of books.

I wish I had said the words myself.

The problem is that, in spite of the claims, writers like the one who penned those introductory phrases seem to keep their words in a very efficient bank, making withdrawals at regular intervals, giving instructions to the bank teller to face the verbs all in the same direction, never having more commas in the bottom of the bank bag than will be needed, with none of the adjectives torn or taped together in the center.  When their words and punctuation are laid out on the page, they obediently fall into place without complaint, causing nary a note of discord.

My words are not so well put together, having been kept under my mattress for too many restless nights or hidden in the piano, the vibrations of too many early morning practice sessions causing them to settle into an disorganized mess.  (Some settling of contents may occur in transit.)

It is a chore to disentangle the active verbs from the passive, and for some reason, the modifiers will dangle.  I do have at least a few words to spend, but as I pull them out of my pocket, there seems to be more than a little fluff mixed in.  Most nights, I still manage to pull enough of them together to get by.

I had thought earlier of describing the words as disciplined soldiers, moving where they are directed, marking time at that pause, doing an about face at the end of that sentence, and holding a straight line as they march in step with each other.

I have no such words at my command.

It is true that, some days, the words come unbidden, awaiting their turn impatiently to drop onto the page.  On days such as those, these posts seem to write themselves, with only a small amount of supervisory vigilance.

Not tonight.

I sat at the computer earlier and shouted, “Forward, March!”

No response.  Nothing.  The soldiers all seem to be AWOL.

Maybe my Sergeant Major act was too intimidating for them.  Moving on, I searched under the mattress and found nothing there but a lot of whiny adjectives, and I certainly can’t use them all at once.  Incompetent and ignorant, along with a stubborn and idiotic mixed in here and there, would certainly make poor conversation, so they have been stuffed back under the mattress to await another day.

It would seem the jumble hidden in the bottom of the piano can yield no better, with way too many exclamation points making their way to the top.

No.  It’s safe to say the bank account is lacking in capital tonight.

Years ago, there was a description for wealthy folks who had lost their fortune. I remember hearing an older well-to-do widow say it once.

I think he is embarrassed.

Those words describe me tonight, and are applicable to more than just the state of my verbal bank account.

Sometimes the result of a stressful day is that there are not enough words which can be found to piece together anything suitable for the readers.  Today was such a day, with angry patrons and inept vendors, along with an error or two on my part.  On such occasions, perhaps it is better to defer to another time.

Tomorrow, possibly.

Maybe a few ideas can be squirreled away during the daytime hours, to draw interest until the next opportunity to invest them comes along.

I’ll be especially careful to save a few more conjunctions.  I always like the way they work together with other words.

I think I can even find a helpful adverb or two to spend, like happily and friendly.  I’m sure I can scrape together enough to do something worthwhile.

Can we make it a date, then?

You won’t need to bring anything at all.

It will be my treat.

 

 

 

The right word may be effective, but no word was ever as effective as a rightly timed pause.
(Mark Twain~American author and humorist~1835-1910)

A gentle word deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare.
(Proverbs 15:1 NLT)

 

*from I Have Words To Spend (Reflections of a Small-Town Editor), by Robert Cormier, published by Delacorte Books, 1994.

 

 

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